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Why do white women dislike dating east asian american men or pacific islander?
I lived in West Coast and Hawaii for many years, and found many white women date asian american men. As i move toward the midwest (chicago) and east coast (new york city), i find majority white women dislike dating asian amercian men. Its really funny

i’m an equal opportunity dater, and have gone out with women of many ethnicities. we treat each other as regular people and tend to get along that way. in some cases, rejection may not have anything to do with race. do these women ever say why? do they tell you "i’m not into asians?" what’s a guy (or girl) supposed to do when he/she hears that?

jasumi is absolutely right about one dimensional media portrayals of asian men. any stereotype is hurtful, and for asians, they range from being an honors student to the violent alcoholic. but how attractive is a person who believes and projects stereotypes onto you?

even if i wasn’t an asian male, i would question the integrity and character of a person who has some kind of racial or culturized stigma against dating asians or any other ethnicity for that matter. modern racism is subtle, unconscious, and underhanded. the days of jim crow are gone.

good luck